L.I.F.E. is a pain...

I was walking through the rain…
Carrying a heavy heart full of pain…
I didn’t know that I was crying…
I didn’t know that my eyes were wet…

I saw many friends of mine…
But no one could see me crying…
I guess my tears were so small…
To cheat my friend's eyes...

May be I am worrying too much…
May be I’ve gone emotionally mad…
May be my nerves are dying…
Or may be it’s me who is dying….

How long I can hold it? I am not sure,
But as long as I hold it,
I will hold it with a smile…
I will hold it with a smile…

I wish if no one could see me crying…

I wish if no one could see me dying...

Baby, just can't let you go..

For the Girl I love the most....

Hey baby... ohh baby...

It’s you who made me feel that i am loved...
It’s you who taught me the meaning of love...
It’s you who made me smile when I was totally down...
It’s you who gave me a hand while I was drowning in loneliness...

How could I smile when your eyes are wet?
How would I sleep when you have nightmares?
When I can’t even stand a tear in your eyes,
Tell me baby how will I let you go away from me?

It’s you with whom I shared all my feelings..
It’s you with whom I enjoyed the pleasure of being loved...
It’s you baby with whom I learnt the meaning of real love...,
And it’s you whom I love the most... Yes, it’s you dear!

Let me cry, when you feel sad,
I can’t stand when you cry so loud...
Let me take the pain, when you are hurt,
I can’t stand when tears rolls over your cheeks...

Please baby, please... wipe off your tears...
Leave all your worries and sorrows...
I don't want you to feel sad anymore,
Lets have a new beginning with all happiness, Lets have a life...

No matter what happens, I will be there for you dear…
Holding your hands... standing by you....
To kiss you, to hug you, to love you…
Till my very last breath, I will be there for you...

I just want to tell you something...
Just can’t leave you for anything, I will never...
You are mine, and only mine,
Baby, just cant let you go...

LIFE - is full of seasons

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life. He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up. If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season.

Why Do People Struggle in Life??

I always wonder, why do we people struggle in their life?? I believe that our destiny is decided byour attitude in life and not by anything else... I would like to define struggle as "An emotional and mental state where we find our life deviating from the way we wish to have to a stage where we never wish to get into..." But ee cannot classify this at any point of time... Because it’s totally up that individual to decide whether he or she is struggling or not...

If an individual cannot enjoy or did not satisfy about the place in life where he stands, which makes him feel that he is struggling... If there is happiness in everything we do, then there is no struggling, because no one would complain or frustrated of their happiness... And if even after being happy they feel they are struggling.. there are some other terms like arrogance... greedy... etc...

But the most interesting thing that I have found out in life is that, though we have 99 things favouring us and if one thing doesn’t come out as much as we expected, then we feel very sad about it and get into such a state where we are struggling.. just because of that 1 thing we are not happy.. So what about the other 99 things which came in your way? Lets take the case of a millionaire, though he has money, Car, big house, servants, etc, he would not be happy if he fails in his love life, because that is something what he cannot buy... And because of that single failure his life might get screwd up... In the other end, The ordinary person might be happy in his love life, his kids.. his family.. but still, would be worried about other things in life like - House, Car, etc.
So, as I conclude, I strongly believe that the main reason for us to struggle is nothing but "Too much of EXPECTATION" in life... Because we often forget many good things and struggle in life because of expecting for something that never gonna happen...

So my dear friends... Deliver more Expect less... Live your life happily....

Keep smiling and wish you all a very happy Easter!

::Jithu::

The real value of Relationship!

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS:

1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER:

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.
That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.


" Take off all your envies, jealousies,unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.


MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading. ..... Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth In human relationship.

The Art of Self Appraisal!

A little boy went into a drug store, reached for asoda carton and pulled it over to the telephone. Heclimbed onto the carton so that he could reach thebuttons on the phone and proceeded to punch in sevendigits (phone numbers).The store-owner observed and listened to theconversation:Boy: "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting yourlawn?Woman: (at the other end of the phone line): "Ialready have someone to cut my lawn."Boy: "Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price ofthe person who cuts your lawn now."Woman: I'm very satisfied with the person who ispresently cutting my lawn.Boy: (with more perseverance): "Lady, I'll even sweepyour curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you willhave the prettiest lawn in all of Palm beach , Florida."Woman: No, thank you.With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced thereceiver. The store-owner, who was listening to allthis, walked over to the boy.Store Owner: "Son... I like your attitude; I like thatpositive spirit and would like to offer you a job."Boy: "No thanks,Store Owner: But you were really pleading for one.Boy: No Sir, I was just checking my performance at thejob I already have. I am the one who is working forthat lady, I was talking to!"This is what I call "Self Appraisal"

Here is A Nice Article about Love - By Swami Vivekananda.

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you . For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.Give and don't expect.Advise, but don't order.Ask, but never demand.It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....Life is beautiful!!! Live it!!!

Love - Who got it defined.

Hey,
Just a small debate here.. How do you define love??

Is it just something which people do it for their personal gain??
Is it something for the sake of just living with someone??
Is it just another term for lust?? or infactuation...???
Do you really think Love makes a person dependant on the other for his/her happiness??
Or is it pure feelings comes out directly from heart for unconditionally??

Friends shoot your thoughts on this.. and lets have a discussion on this.... :)

The Monday mOOn :)

I don't know how did I write this poem... but I just wrote... Don't know whether it holds any meaning.. but still posting.. After all its my first poem in my life.. :). here it goes - The Monday moon...

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Monday moon makes me cry...
Oneday I am gonna make him dry...
Sunday the day, let me give a try!

I wonder, why do I cry at this monday moon...
Don't know whats wrong with this monday moon,
But now, I really feel tired of this Monday Moon...

Is it just a spot or really a moon?
I really don't know whats so special,
But its a wonder moon to me!

Though it makes me cry very soon,
I don't think its a guilty goon..
Because I still love my monday Moon!

With Love from Middle Berth…

Like many other people, I too like train journey a lot. It’s a long journey, where we can have the fun of travelling and the joy of site seeing... When I got the call from my cricket team coach for the cricket match in Bangalore, I felt very happy… I heard a lot about the Bangalore’s crowd… especially Girls! So its all decided and finally the day has come… Though the train was at 9.30PM, we reached the station by 7PM itself: The BIRDS in my hometown are also as attractive as its in BangaloreJ. Finally, we got into the train… Because of the hectic rush, we got the berths in different places. I have got the berth in S10 along with my friend - Anand. He got the upper berth and me - the middle berth.
Soon after we entered, a family got into the compartment with big luggage and other stuffs. Anyone can easily understand that its a Mallu family settled in Bangalore going back after a long vacation. A middle aged person and his family – Wife, his daughter(hmm I think she is in her 10th standard) and his son who is just about 2-3 years of old also an old lady I guess she is their nanny - somewhere in 80s. They have got 3 berths in the other side and one by our side – the lower one. We passed a smile to all of them... After all they are going to be with us inside this compartment for the entire night right.. That person was very friendly in nature and soon we started off with a conversation… When her father asked us where we are going, my friend shouted loudly “we are district cricket team members and are going to Bangalore for a Cricket tournament!” Poor fellow! He felt, people will be impressed to see professional cricketers… but to his disappointment, that person responded this way – “Why you kids are wasting your life by playing cricket... Can’t you concentrate in your studies and get some good jobs…?” For this comment, his daughter passed a cute smile but did not say anything… (Hmm…she is slowly getting on to our track, we thought…) Though we were having a common discussion, only her dad and mom bothered to respond… Her grand mom was praying all this time and her naughty crooked brother, though he can’t speak anything clearly, was good at showing irritating gestures towards us... Stupid kid! :D all this while, she was just being a silent listener - as if she is a very serious person, but WHO CARES! hmm but at times she used to pass some smiles at our witty numbers… we then changed out tactics… Later time, we were trying to win her brother’s heart by offering cool drinks, ice creams and chocolates to him.. But that little devil took everything we offered but never bothered to friend with us… SHAMELESS CHEATER!

Time went past… we had dinner… still no positive response from the girl.. Ahem ahem.. Seems like a tough customer I felt… But Anand was still busy giving his last try - pretending as if he is recollecting some of his old (fake) stories (Like he hit 3 sixes in successive balls to win a match bla bla), which is his last and regular tool to impress people, especially when there are girls around.. But as usual, its of no use… no one in fact showed any interest to give any attention to those boring stories… Slowly we given up and thought of sleeping, so as that family... The girl stepped on to the upper berth and was about to sleep.. And her mom got on to the middle berth and her nanny already FLAT on the lower berth.. When her father took that naughty kid on the lower berth for sleeping, the kid started crying to get on to the middle berth, It seems he needs to touch his mom whenever he wants but is not ready to sleep with her (what a weird habit, Isn’t it?). Still his father tried his best to fit him by his mom’s side, but the kid was stubborn with his decision that he will sleep with his father only but he also want to touch her mom as well… GRR…

Then my idiot friend Anand came in for the rescue... He offered MY berth to them even without asking me! He said – “Jithu, why don’t you let them sleep on the middle berth da.. He will be happy then..” More than pleasing them, that @$$ wanted me to go totally out of that girl’s sight!! As soon as he made his announcement, her father was looking at me for a response or rather he was expecting me to get down off the middle berth, and as she was also looking at me to know what is happening, I could not say a NO in this situation and I had to say - “Ohh no problem Uncle,No prolem at all”. In my mind I was searching for new abusing words for my friend who offered my berth to that person… However, I was happy about the fact that I have got a chance to get her sympathy with my broad minded attitude... Ahem ahem…

Slowly I fell asleep and was dreaming about the film Titanic which I had watched recently… I kicked Leonardo Dicaprio out of the scenes and filled in myself for his role... Kate Winslet was very happy to see me in place of Dicaprio… Everything was perfect… James Cameron described me the scene and we were shooting all the sequences.... Meeting Rose… falling in love.. the famous spitting competition…Titanic pose… then we were getting ready for the sinking of the ship… everything was perfect.. clear sky… shining stars… but suddenly it started drizzling… I wondered, in the movie there was no rain.. then how come suddenly… PLING.. PLING… Ohh.. Few drops fell on my face as well.. ohh its really raining now and its getting stronger, I felt.. Who knows, it may give some added effects to the film than the original one.. and after all rain is the symbol of romance, so its ok with me… I was getting ready for the shot.. but then I realized, it tastes salty!

I woke up from my sleep and closed my eyes tightly to see if I were really dreaming… I slowly realized..Yes, I was dreaming all this time!! FFEWW… Yet another dream!! The ship… The ocean... Rain, James Cameron, Kate Winslet all disappeared from my mind but except one… The salty taste in my mouth… I opened my eyes… I woke up slowly.. The train was still moving smoothly with its rhythmic sound… I rubbed my eyes…. Then I realized, my face is really wet and it tasted salty!!! Somehow, I got my nerves back and woke up from the berth and switched on the lights.. Then I realized, It wasn’t the salty rain which I dreamt of… It was nothing but the naughty lil devil’s tank was leaking while he was sleeping… In simple words- That little stupid idiot PEED on me!!! “AaaaaaHHH Grrrrrrrrrrrr, What the hell is this!!” I shouted.. All in the compartment woke up.. and I was standing in the middle with wet face!!! I was speechless… His father apologized to me and said, sometimes he does so! I could not look at the side where his sister was sleeping… In midst I saw Anand - struggling to control his laughter!! Bloody bugger!!
While going towards the washbasin, I could hear his father telling the boy – “baby, Why did u PEE on his face... See he how sad he is now… never repeat it okie sweettu?” and then follows by my friend’s dialogue – “Its okie uncle... No problem.. He is just a kid na.. “

I could not do much, than cursing my fate…

Indian Youngsters Eye for new hights.. An example..

Nothing to comment.. the pic shows it all :P

Joke of the DAY!!

Got this mallu joke from my friend just now... :)

What is de difference between CHICKEN GUNIYA and CHAPPATHI???? Think.... ? ? ? ? ?? ??? ????? ????????? ????????? ???????????????????????????? ???????????????????????"

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CHICKEN GUNIYA " Kothuku parathum..... but "CHAPATHI" nammal thanne parathanam mone.................

LOL

::Jithu::

My standings and misunderstandings... :P

Note: There is nothing like - Crush, Love or infatuation here, May be some genuine characteristics of a typical Sagittarius!

Hmm… It was on a fine Sunday I met her for the first time... During my visit to my home town a month ago, I was asked to go to a party of my mom’s colleague Mr. Menon sir’s son’s wedding… Initially though I hesitated to go with her, then later considering the crowd factor I agreed to go.. Rather I had to go to my mom and tell her that – “Mom I am getting bored here… So I am also coming...”. Because she had stopped forcing me after I said that I am not going to come for the reception party! I actually did not want to waste a chance for cream bird watching in Thrissur…

So It was after my friend come neighbor – Joy’s Sister’s marriage, we all got ready to go for the reception. My Chechi and her naughty daughter were also there along with us for the reception. As I drove in, I could see the some colors (I mean BIRDS - can’t translate anymore…)

But there is not as much I was expecting.. It was a Sunday evening… and all I could see is my mom’s colleagues… L Only old people.. most of them are in the edge of retirement… Not many young bloods other than some kids playing here and there… For a moment I felt, I shouldn't have come here… But all of a sudden, I saw a young, fresh face among those old faces… she was talking to people...walking all around the auditorium with a broad smile on face… hmm... She is not bad... I said myself… May be because she got some facial resemblance to the film actress Namita (Only FACIAL similaritiesJ)! Hmm but her smile was good enough to catch my attention! Ahem ahem… But I could not do much as my sister was following my every step with her watchful eyes along with her, more watchful daughter… I think She also saw me looking at her, and may be because of that she was forcing mom to go back home! Hmm... While walking towards the car parking, I saw her standing at the front door of the auditorium... Gehhh! Is she following me now, I had a doubt and that is quite obvious!! But she never looked at me L - blind girls! I rushed to the car parking and took my car in a hurry to reach the entrance before she goes from there… I took my car in style near the entrance… Though I was visible to her by the time reached, my crooked sister blocked my sight very intelligently so that even if that girl turns towards us, she won’t be able to see me! Even if it was not intentional, my sister got an ability to do things like this very often, what a pity! And with a sigh, I drove back home…

Reached Bangalore on Tuesday and again, the same stupid life… but on next Monday, I got to know from my teammates that there is a new girl on the floor that too very close to the place where our team members sit… ahem… Ahem… When I saw her, I could not believe myself… she looks the same as the previous girl whom I was talking about earlier. But some changes in the outlook and ornaments… though the smile and face resemble, not much cuteness as the previous one had… and a lil bit fatty too… But I was so surprised to see her anyways… By the way does that really matter?? For us yet another Bird in the floor…:D yeehoo! I heard someone yelling once that Bird watching in the early morning relishes your mind! I think there is something about that…

Days went past in the same pattern.. but today when I got into the cab at 5.15Am for my morning shift… Believe it or not.. Instead of the regular boring faces (sorry mates... but it is really) of my other cab mates (only malesL), I saw her there inside the cab!! As soon as I entered, my cab driver started asking me the news at home and other details… He is also a Mallu!! Actually I wanted to thank him that time since he made me to speak Malayalam - I was thinking of how to make her understand that I am the same Mallu guy she met that day in Thrissur at the function. I could see her looking at me when I speak to the cab driver so friendly.. I felt hmm she is impressed!! Ha ha! But why is she hesitating to speak? Hmm may be a starting trouble… I thought of starting a conversation... But you know, what the words just don’t come out.. “Bloody useless idiot”, I cursed myself for not being smart when it is really needed… Hmm… Then I thought, let’s get out of the office… as she is in the same floor we will get some time while walking towards the office… that time I can start a conversation… As wished, when we entered inside the lift, surprisingly there was no security guard!! Ahem ahem!! The door closed!! I took all my strength and asked her – “Hey, Have I met u earlier??? I have seen you in Trichur… Do you remember??”

I was expecting a surprised face with a big smile on the face, but that did not happen -instead I saw one confused face followed by a question – “th-hri –chur??? Nooooo!!”
Now I doubt, whether she is a Malayali or not!! Anyways, I said “ Ohh Is it.. Ohh So stupid of me.. Sorry I think I am mistaken...” Thankfully, by this time we reached the 5th floor and I got out as if I am running to beat Rajadhani Express! but while the security guard was checking my laptop bag, she said “Buh Bye.. See you!”… Budding yet another hope to my imaginations… She went past me with a smile… And I went slowly towards my desk for yet another boring day in my life!

Same situation...Different People.. Different Thoughts..

Hey..

Here comes yet another weird activity from the naughty boy... on a Sunday morning.. suddenly I woke up and from no where I got a scenario in mind.. Offcource a weird one! :D!! I sent it as a SMS to my roomie.. who had been to his father's place.. his answer was so interesting.. then I felt, what would others be thinking about the same situation.. first I sent sms to some of my friends.. their replies were too interesting.. My dear friends felt that I am in such a situation and in need of some serious advice!! And most of them responded very seriously thinking I really needed some help.. Ummaaaah.. Love you all... but I am sorry.. :) Because of the variety and thoughtful contents... I have decided that i will send this to as many people I know and will see how they all respond to this.. And the results were so amazing... :D So here goes the real scenario... and below to that some selected responses from my friends.. :) By the by, though its a weird thought from me... you all responded well... i got more than 100 responses.. hmm I really got a lot of friends here.. Ahem ahem! Thanks to all for your prompt responses... :)

Hi Friends..
I needed some inputs/thoughts from you all on below given scenario. Please think as an individual and give me your thoughts on this. I have already received some information from some, but some were confused with the scenario. So here the scenario goes like this:
You were in love with someone in the past. You both were having a great time.. and both loved each other a lot. After some 2-3 years you broke up because of some reason (both have their own reasons). Now after 1 year, You met a new person with whom, first you had friendship.. and then gradually got closer.. The new person understands your feelings and supports you… That person looking to have a relationship with you, ready to forget and forgive you on your past relationship… Then the twist… Your Old love comes back to you… Realizing the mistakes.. Apologizing.. It’s all because of some misunderstanding.. neither one’s mistake just a communication gap. And now your Old love has come to you leaving everything behind, for you!!
But, You have already started the arrangements for your engagement with your new lover… And that person is all excited about it… Now what would you do ?? Your break up with the old love was just a misunderstanding… neither one’s mistake.. And your old love has come back to you leaving everything once realized that the break up was just some communication problem.. Your current love was ready to forget and forgive you for everything and is all excited about getting engaged.. So I just want to know your inputs or your thinking on these 2 persons who love you more than anything… Please friends… If you have some time.. please respond…. I am waiting…

So this was the mail/sms all about.... and here we go with some of the most interesting responses... with an analysis of the total response..

None of the Males were in a confused state where in more than 45% of Females were in a confused state!!! :) To my surprise, all my female friends who are in a relationship, did not have a firm decision.. ahem ahem!! ALL THE COMMITTED FEMALES ARE IN A CONFUSED STATE!! It means that when emotional decisions to be taken, most of the females get confused while almost all the males have a firm decision.. hmmm interesting isnt it? Here are some of the interesting responses which I noted down..

Guys - Single:
" Don’t let them go machha. In fact first love is the one that you should never compromise with and the one whom you are gonna get engaged with is ready to accept you even after knowing the past bitchy stories. Both are lovely but if you want one of them then you have to find out which one is more compatible with you, if you cannot let either of them go then you have to make both of them understand and have a split relationship with both of them. Cheeers!!!!! Girls come and go but the right ones stay…………"

“Since there is a decision taken by the person saying that he will marry the new girlfriend. I think u have to go ahead with that. It is just possesiveness of the old girl friend and who knows there might be again a mis- communication later in life.”

" wateva it is da, you shoudln have gone away in the first place. If you happen to meet again its only a new person who can undrstand you better after all this. So better stick on to present and forget the past. According to me History should not repeat ;) Present should succeed :) thats the most satisfiying thing."

I personally feel that individual should carry on with the engagement. Coz past is past and to the person he is committed now holds more value. He should inform her ex lover about what is currently going on. It really matters if u hurt a person whom you are committed now. Neither it was that individuals fault nor her ex lovers fault, all that is playing tricks is mighty “TIME”

" I have many resolutions to this and they are listed below. Please choose the one that best suits you. (1). Ask Karan Johar for a climax.(2). Ditch both of 'em and go find a 3rd person.(3). Accept both and ... you know.."

Guys -Committed:
" choose one with big b**bs ..."
" Once you are committed then never look back, if you are dong so then you are making a mistake."
" Marry both :)"

Guys - broken Relationship:
" But i will assure u that i will never curse u or hate u ( 1st one ) .. U will be always my friend :)

" You should always go ahead with the new love only if the old breakup was not just because of you. And it is always preferable not to tell or ask about one’s past to the person with whom you are gonna get married. That you will understand in the future, its not a joke. But yea, if both are that understanding and of same kind then its ok.But I will never ask you to breakup with the new girl and go back to the old GF. What big thought have you guys got to make it up at this stage, and moreover, don’t screw another girl’s life who is an innocent person and who doesn’t have any right to suffer because of you and your Ex GF."

Guys - Married:
" Forget the past, Progress with the present."

" I'll kick her butt n say "Tu nahin to koi aur sahi, koi aur nahin to koi aur sahi" This is my sincere advice."

" I would remain a good friend with the Old. Go ahead and commit myself for the new. Reason : For the old one there was no past and you were a choice. For the new one, you had a past and now you have a choice, but still she wanted to be with you."

Girls - Single:
" Reg 1st Person :
I will be thankful to him that he realizes the misunderstandings & comes back to me.But i wont go with him because once i broke all the relation with him & about to start a new life with someone else who agreed already to forgive me for all my past & also i started giving my love & started trusting someone new... But i will assure u that i will never curse u or hate u ( 1st one ) .. U will be always my friend :)
Reg 2nd Person :
If u r forgiving me for sympathy , then i assure u that i won't be no more with u , but at the same time i won't go back to the 1st one.Because once the trust is lost it's really tough to get into that relation again. but if u r sincere, Am thankful to you for forgiving me for my past.Am ready to be with u always :) Now... in case of me , i wont go for a new relation since i had a bitter past.. :) if the 2nd guy really loves me then i would tell him to consult my parents & take the final decision... But here its already the arrangements for the engagement is getting ready.. so there is no problem.. :) "

" you should stride forward into the future without even looking back. when u needede sm1 the most this new person gave u the support and when this person needs u ;u shoudnt be a fair wheather bird.thts all i gotta say. :) "

" I think u shud stay with ur current love. If the first person left u coz of som misunderstandings and comes back coz she/he regrets it,then it is highly likely that she/he may have a misunderstandng abt u in future too.. Mistakes shud be forgiven and u can take him/her back as a friend..but if u hav given ur word to a new person who knew everything and still loved u,may be u shd keep loving him/her"

Girls – Committed:
“ If I were in this situation, I would opt to marry my new love coz i cannot break the hopes of a person who has loved and understood me soo much and has accepted me with my past. Not saying that my old love is bad, but may be he was too late..”

“i wud go for the new person who has accepted me the way i am..the old person seems to be prone to misunderstandings..!!”

"I will be thankful to him that he realizes the misunderstandings & comes back to me.But i wont go with him because once i broke all the relation with him & about to start a new life with someone else who agreed already to forgive me for all my past & also i started giving my love & started trusting someone new..."

Girls - Married:
" communication gap, it shows the immaturity in the relationship.and the second person understands u more and have given u all the support when u needed it. And of course u have started loving the second girl/guy."

“I say marry both ...variety is spice of life..heheheheheh”

Girls – Broken relationship:
“Even if I broke up with my first love, it doesn’t mean that I will go for another one with keeping my old love in my heart. I won’t even think about a new one into my life until and unless I get sure that I can forget my old love and can get along with a new person. and once if I decided to move on with the new one, I wont leave him who is ready to accept and love me as the way am and ready to forgive and forget me for what all happened in my past. it doesn’t mean that I hate my old love/not ready to forgive/understand him or the reason with which we got broken up, but its cuz, I should understand the one who is ready to accept me along with my minus points ....Coz the one who can understand our pains and problems and can accept the unhappy past, they know the meaning of LOVE...”

I believe this particular post shows us the modern view of humans (At least Indian mentality - The responses are from south and north Indians of different relationship statuses of both genders) towards love and relationships... I have seen people, who waste their life crying for their old lovers who have dumped them… I have seen people who find love as part time activity… I have seen people, who are carrying unhealthy relationships… I dedicate this post to all those amazing friends of mine to have a rethink on their mentality on the modern thinking world!!

So I hope, may this be an insight to all those guys and girls who are still confused to take important decisions of their life on such relationships.

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Till I get my next stupid thought... Its me Jithu, signing off! Cya...
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Revenge!

May be a very familiar story for all mallus... but still.. for those who did not hear about this before.. :)

A group of Ants were going on top of a wooden bridge... they were going to attend their friend's wedding at the other side of the small canal... They were very well dressed up and happy... The wooden bridge was very old.. Then suddenly an Elephant came in from nowhere... And got on to the bridge... The ants shouted at him saying - "Hey, Please don't get on to the bridge... It’s very old and weak.. It will fall down if you step in...” Then the elephant, said, "I don't care.. I know how to swim...” Then the ants requested - "Please wait till we reach the other end... we have a marriage to attend...” But the elephant, did not listen to them and got on to the bridge.. Within seconds, because of his weight, the bridge has fallen down with a huge sound... So as the elephant and the ants... Some of the ants got on to the banks because of the waves in the water... They all were so angry and frustrated and searched for the the elephant and found him standing in the middle of the canal with a naughty smile on his face.... Then they suddenly noticed 1-2 of their friends standing on top of the elephant... They somehow got on to his body when they fell down from the bridge... Seeing this opportunity, one of the angry young ants shouted at his friends who stand on the elephant- “Kick that jerk and sink that bloody son of a bitch!! @#$#@$!#$#!$!#$!"