I always wonder, why do we people struggle in their life?? I believe that our destiny is decided byour attitude in life and not by anything else... I would like to define struggle as "An emotional and mental state where we find our life deviating from the way we wish to have to a stage where we never wish to get into..." But ee cannot classify this at any point of time... Because it’s totally up that individual to decide whether he or she is struggling or not...
If an individual cannot enjoy or did not satisfy about the place in life where he stands, which makes him feel that he is struggling... If there is happiness in everything we do, then there is no struggling, because no one would complain or frustrated of their happiness... And if even after being happy they feel they are struggling.. there are some other terms like arrogance... greedy... etc...
But the most interesting thing that I have found out in life is that, though we have 99 things favouring us and if one thing doesn’t come out as much as we expected, then we feel very sad about it and get into such a state where we are struggling.. just because of that 1 thing we are not happy.. So what about the other 99 things which came in your way? Lets take the case of a millionaire, though he has money, Car, big house, servants, etc, he would not be happy if he fails in his love life, because that is something what he cannot buy... And because of that single failure his life might get screwd up... In the other end, The ordinary person might be happy in his love life, his kids.. his family.. but still, would be worried about other things in life like - House, Car, etc.
So, as I conclude, I strongly believe that the main reason for us to struggle is nothing but "Too much of EXPECTATION" in life... Because we often forget many good things and struggle in life because of expecting for something that never gonna happen...
So my dear friends... Deliver more Expect less... Live your life happily....
Keep smiling and wish you all a very happy Easter!
::Jithu::
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Why Do People Struggle in Life??
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really a gud one..i totally agree to u in this...but d problmis people are never satisfied with wht they have u c..
I disagree with u jithu .....If one is not satisfied or happy in life it does'nt mean that he is greedy or arrogant .If he is concerned about others ,their happiness their sufferings then he can be unhappy . So many people voiced their concern about the killings in Kannur . There are people who protest about custody death . As far as I am concerned I feel sick when I see torture in TV. I am sensitive I can't be happy when someone near to me suffer .Only selfish ,heardhearted and saddistic people can be happy because they are not concerned about others ,they use others as a laddder to climb on . Sorry to disagree with u ....thankam
I respect your points... But whatever points you said here, let it be abt the Kannur murders.. or the custody torturing.. do these incidents.. make u feel sad for a long time??? You feel sad for a while.. and u forget.. I was talking abt our life... Do you think its worth crying for someone whom we lost in life forever.. or sure that he/she will never come back to us??? Do you think that its worth feeling sad about not getting a beatiful wife.. or a handsom husband in life?? If we keep looking for flaws in life.. it will never end.. And there won;t be a day where we find only happiness and achievements in life..
Sidhartha had a very protected , secured life in the Palace , beautiful wife , child ,money ,power .etc When he saw the sufferings of others he left the palace and went in search of happiness and he became Budha
He he.. There may be some exceptional cases like Budha!! And who knows whether he has got someother personal issues or not! :P
LOL
::Jithu::
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